How to Achieve Your Dreams

[Matthew Sherborne]

If you want to truly discover how to achieve your dreams, the first thing you need to do is to believe.


Whether your goals are accumulating more wealth, buying a new car, finding the dream mate or finding a job you really love. Before you can achieve anything you need to believe it’s possible.

Think about this for a second… Do you believe in your goals?

If you have a dream and one of your friends or family members tells you that it’s out of reach or impossible, what should be your first response?

Don’t just think about your immediate response, but think about your inner thoughts too?

Would you accept what they say? Thinking to yourself, "Yeah! It’s probably too hard…" or "They’re right. I’m wasting my time, this could never work."

Would you accept their opinion without giving it another thought?

If you thought, yes or even maybe, listen up… Stop thinking that way!

Before you achieve anything that you think may be even a little difficult, you must – repeat – YOU MUST own the belief that it is not only possible, it is probable. Then, owning that belief, ask yourself some very focused questions.

Questions:

• What do I want?

• What is the first step I should take to be one step closer to achieve what I am after?

• Who can clear up any lack of knowledge that I need to achieve this?

• What is my plan to get from Point A to Point B?

The most important objective to achieve anything on this planet (or out of this world) is to believe. Without belief there is nothing.


What do you want to become?

Become what you focus on. Whether you want to or not you will become what you concentrate your efforts on. If you concentrate on achieving wealth, you will become aware of opportunities to achieve that wealth.

If you allow yourself to become consumed with bad things that happen to you, you will become a person that bad things happen to.

You need to become just like the person you want to be like. This requires reading and diving into the lives of those who have already achieved what you are striving for.

You must become a filter for what you allow in and what you push out. Do this by reading what you want to learn. Listen to audio books that support your goals. Talk with people who build up your ideas.

Just remember you will become what you want to achieve even if others say it’s impossible.

Beware of negative influences!

Ok, lets call them what they are… Beware of the idiots. Few things will kill a million-dollar idea faster than idiots telling you it can’t work.


I have a friend who has a brilliant outlook on life. He is an entrepreneur and has a lot of great ideas. Not only are they great ideas they actually make him money.

There are plenty of people who would look at him and his ideas and tear down any effort he would make at trying to achieve.

Here’s the part you need to adopt and adapt to your way of life.

To the people who tear down or do not support his ideas are automatically dismissed as idiots. Those who support him and his ideas are always geniuses. That’s a great way to win! Develop your genius tribe. Totally ignore and dismiss the idiot pool.

Now you don’t have to be so raw about it calling people idiots (although it may help). You can still apply the same principle. Beware of the nay-sayers. Embrace the encourager's.

Surround yourself with other people who share your inspiration and are encouraging. In addition to that seek out smart or successful people in the whatever you want to excel at.

Many of the most successful people only became so after closely associated themselves with an experienced mentor.

The sentence "Few things will kill a million-dollar idea faster than an idiot telling you it can’t work." is SO true. Another thing that will kill a million-dollar idea faster than anything is not being yourself.


Always be yourself

Being yourself is the most unique thing you can offer anyone. Why would you want to rob yourself of the most valuable asset you can offer?

Trying to be someone else is a nasty habit that is so transparent it turns off everyone who sees it. Don’t do it. No one likes a phony. But everyone loves those who love being themselves.

People are attracted to people who are real, trustworthy and are confident in who they are. These people understand that they are valuable being the only person they can be. Be yourself and don’t be ashamed of who you are.

Know that you are valuable and you deserve what you seek. Once you have accepted that you are valuable and are sure in who you are, you will begin to notice in a very short time that people will begin to be attracted to you. They will want to be around you and unconsciously want what you have got


This may sound strange, but one of the things that subliminally attracts women to men, is when a man has a strong sense of entitlement. If you have a belief system that says you deserve better in life and are not afraid to stand up for what you believe in, and go after it, people can tell. More importantly that success driven attitude will have a profound effect on the way 'you' achieve your goals.

Believe in yourself, avoid negative influences, know what you want, set big goals and be true to yourself to get on track to achieving your dreams.

Use your your unique power and start living the life you want!